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As mother of the bride, I am so touched and pleased that you performed my daughter’s wedding. Not only were your words so carefully chosen, so personal, so spiritual, but they were also so clearly heard by all, including the elderly, hard of hearing relatives. Yesterday, I drove to my parents home {in their 80's} and they mentioned how well they heard all that you said and how amazing you were. Thank you so much for such a beautiful ceremony. My heart remains very full.

There are so many couples whom I have married, and professional photographers that have contributed their images to my website. Thank you…. in no particular order:

Perfect Circle Photography
Elle Jae
Zoe Lonegran
Kimberly Loya
Rachel Balunset
Bella Pictures
Lisa Stone
Sophie Maher
Jeremy Saldyga

Words of Thanks from Happy Couples

Sung and Carlos

The wedding day was incredibly joyous and wonderful!  We felt greatly connected to Lili and appreciate the warmth she shared not only with us, but with our families and all the guests. People commented at how the beautiful words were, and her loving presence really supported the atmosphere we wanted to create on our special day. Her patience, kindness, and acceptance of our love, cultures and union really made the entire experience that much more special.

Mick and Anne

My husband and I had a very uplifting experience of Lili’s officiating our wedding ceremony. From the beginning there was a sincerity in our work together to make the vows, the discussions of our relationship, and the ceremony itself an experience of loving and honesty. Prior to the ceremony we discussed our vows, as well as the challenges in our relationship which needed blessings and support for healing and resolution. With her support, our marriage ceremony became the stage for us to authentically express ourselves as individuals, and as partners, to our beloved family and friends. Our time meeting with her beforehand, the wedding ceremony, and the overall synergy created from our work together resides in our hearts always. We are eternally grateful for her support and loving, and know that the opportunity to work with her and receive her guidance and blessings was a gracious gift from Spirit.

Jennifer and James

From our first conversation with Lili we knew she would be the perfect person to marry us. Her calm gentle demeanor and ability to get us to focus on each other was tremendously helpful, especially the day before the wedding, when we felt worn to a frazzle! The ceremony was so lovely, and her words rang so true for both of us. Her spirituality shines through her and wraps those close to in the warm light of God. We are so grateful to her for helping us craft the perfect ceremony and being an integral part of beginning of our life together as a family.

David and Alexis

Lili's work on our ceremony was indispensable. Not only did she provide us with numerous written options for the ceremony, She also gave us a lot of great ideas for rituals from a variety of cultural traditions. All of this allowed us to tailor a ceremony that fit us perfectly. In addition, her actual officiating of the ceremony itself was absolutely inspired, and we received nothing but raves from our guests concerning the ceremony. Lili made us feel entirely comfortable from our initial meeting, all the way through to our presentation as husband and wife, and we could not recommend her services more strongly!